7 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WOMAN REACH ORGASM AND NEVER FORGET IT
How to make a woman reach her orgasm? This is one of the most frequently asked questions about sexual relationships. And, the most difficult if possible: how to get that climax to remember him forever? Do not get sweaty, dear reader, it’s easier than you think. That most do it badly does not mean that you too. In fact, you have the possibility of leaving the masculine sector in high style. By the way, do you know these most desired sexual fantasies of men?
Let’s get started with some stats. Starting with the theory, you have to record these figures on fire: 61.6% and 85.5%. The first corresponds to the times that they reach orgasm, and the second, to theirs. All this according to a research done by the Kinsey Institute of the University of Indiana.
Let’s go there. We collect the keys that you must follow so that your partner, companion or friend has the greatest ecstasy of his life.
Women are not like you. Her orgasm is more emotional: if her head and body are not in tune, she will most likely end up by faking orgasm so you can stop at once. Or it will be sincere and you will see that you have failed. You do not understand anything because you’ve done everything right: caresses, licks, preliminaries … but nothing. What have you forgotten? Contextualize the sexual act.
Most men make the mistake of going too fast. You can not touch a woman’s clitoris and think that’s enough to excite her.
We mean that you make him forget all the tasks he has pending, the problems of work and the meeting he has the next day with the boss. They are not like men: it is harder for them to disconnect. Therefore, curry it: candles, massages, a hot bath … Everything that makes you be in the present, there and then with you. “Tell her how beautiful she looks in the candlelight,” says sex therapist Ian Kernerto ‘Men’s Health’. “It has been discovered that negative thoughts curb women’s arousal.”
2) Do not hurry
Many men make this mistake: they go too fast. You can not touch a woman’s nipples or clitoris and think that only that will excite her. Also, it is very uncomfortable for you to do it if she has not yet entered the game: you can hurt her. It begins with kisses in the mouth, in the neck, in the back, the crotch … and when you see it clear, it stimulates the erogenous zones.
3) Stimulates the clitoris
Once you have verified that you are excited, you have to stimulate the clitoris, also known as the pleasure button. A study published in the ‘ Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy ‘, from 1,055 interviews with women from 18 to 94 years, found that more than a third of those consulted (37%) needed clitoral stimulation in order to reach the orgasm during intercourse. When this organ entered the equation, more than 40% of women said they reached orgasm more than 75% of the time. Only 18% recognized being able to reach the climax only with vaginal penetration. The numbers speak for themselves. If you want to have a great orgasm, do it big.
4) Check whether it is wet
Before entering, you should check that it is sufficiently lubricated. If you put it in the rough you can not only hurt her, but you can also tear the frenulum (it hurts enough, you will have to go to the emergency room and you will have points …). However, you have to keep in mind that wet does not mean smart. The best thing to do is to ask, and if he says yes, you can start the penetration but his non-verbal language tells you something else, wait. There is no hurry. You can practice oral sex. Have one thing clear: when she wants to start with real coitus, she will let you know.
5) Take care of the smells
Of all our senses, smell connects us with our most primitive nature. An odor we may like, be unpleasant or leave us indifferent, but no one gets to reflect on the impressions that this causes us. The symptoms of a strong attraction are an accelerated sum of chemical reactions in the brain that begin with the perception of the body odor of the person who traps us.
In this regard, Rebecca Rosenblat, a psychotherapist specializing in relationships and sexuality, advises men to get some male fragrances that simulate the odors caused by high levels of testosterone. That will undoubtedly increase the intensity of your orgasm.
6) Right back area
You have to travel as many areas of the body as you can, but above all, your back. Kiss, caress or tickle the right side of this part of the body during the act. For the nerve endings that are located in this part of the body, Rosenblat says that this area is more intense than the left for women.
Odors play a fundamental role: get some male fragrances that simulate the odors caused by high levels of testosterone.
Gently run your tongue along its back, starting at the nape of the neck until it reaches the buttocks. Just brush her skin and make her feel your breath. Like the hips, shoulders, belly or wrists, the back is an erogenous zone little known by men that are, however, one of the most appreciated as far as ladies are concerned. Remember that the more you do it before, the more intense the end.
7) Be funny
Laughing increases a woman’s sexual satisfaction. For the female gender, a funny man is also one that is accepted and shows confidence. In short: the sense of humor of man is an aphrodisiac for them. It says a work carried out by the University of Albany led by the psychologist George Gallup.
Laughter promotes circulation and oxygenation of the blood and stimulates the generation of endorphins, neurotransmitters that are a drug for love and for sex. The body produces them especially during the phases of falling in love, as well as during orgasms.
Since you do it, do it well.